It is always a joyous moment when you meet a person whom you admire, whom you like , whom you treat like an inspiration after so many years. Last Night I met one of my senior colleagues via phone who works in our organisation known as LIC OF INDIA. The person is with same attitude, with all things on tip of tongue despite leaving us for his next assignment in the organisation so many years back. He is the person selected among thousands for management, and future building of the organisation. Our best wishes for the Officer and for his family too.
He is Rath A B once Assistant branch manager Sales at AMBALA CANTT Karnal DIVISION, now Senior Branch Manager at Dispur and about to be a PGEP-3.
OUR BEST WISHES TO YOU SIR.
Bharat B Das (an el eye cee’ian)
Friday, April 09, 2010
Monday, March 01, 2010
HOLI 2010
Happy Holi To all my readers, I wish you all a happy and prosperous Year ahead.
Bharat B Das ( an ell eye cee'ian)
Bharat B Das ( an ell eye cee'ian)
Friday, January 01, 2010
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2010
to all my readers and countrymen and friends all over World, let peace prevail and hope that life for every body may bloom and pass happily.
Bharat B Das (an el eye cee'ian)
Tuesday, December 15, 2009
SEA OF KNOWLEDGE
Our universe consists of more water and less earth, beside that earth nourishes its habitants all over universe of its own, though with the help of water. The people who live away from coastal areas are less prone to sea and its benefits. Very recently I had been to a coastal area known as Vishakhapatnam; the first view of the vast sea grabbed my mind and soul. What I had read about it, what I had seen in magazines and on TV, is only a small percentage of what it is on the beach. After spending an hour on the beach one can understand that as earth ends and sea of water starts for many thousand miles, the movement of water in shape of waves towards beach comes like that there is an organized sector working behind those waves. After seeing above place once , one can only learn the meaning of sea such as; if we need to make our knowledge, thoughts, capability as big as sea, first we need to know what sea is.
WHAT I WANT TO SHARE IS THAT, THE QUANTAM OF KNOWLEDGE, EXPERIENCE WE HAVE SHOULD BE LIKE SEA. WE NEED TO KNOW FIRST ABOUT HOW MUCH BIG SEA IS, WHAT CAPACITY SEA HAS, WHAT PROPERTIES SEA HAS LIKE IT ACCEPTS ONLY NEAT AND CLEAN THINGS AND PUSHES BACK BAD AND FOUL THINGS TOWARDS THE SHORE. WE ALL SHOULD SHARE THE KNOWLEDGE WITH EVERY BODY AND LEND A HELPING HAND TO EVERY ONE IN NEED AND MAKE OUR KNOWLEDGE LIKE THE SEA.
BHARAT B DAS
( an el eye cee'ian)
WHAT I WANT TO SHARE IS THAT, THE QUANTAM OF KNOWLEDGE, EXPERIENCE WE HAVE SHOULD BE LIKE SEA. WE NEED TO KNOW FIRST ABOUT HOW MUCH BIG SEA IS, WHAT CAPACITY SEA HAS, WHAT PROPERTIES SEA HAS LIKE IT ACCEPTS ONLY NEAT AND CLEAN THINGS AND PUSHES BACK BAD AND FOUL THINGS TOWARDS THE SHORE. WE ALL SHOULD SHARE THE KNOWLEDGE WITH EVERY BODY AND LEND A HELPING HAND TO EVERY ONE IN NEED AND MAKE OUR KNOWLEDGE LIKE THE SEA.
BHARAT B DAS
( an el eye cee'ian)
Sunday, November 08, 2009
HEALTH IS WEALTH
Health the important part of our life has always remained the pending job for every one and we try to excel in our job more and more daily, and put in more energy to get best out of us. We forget to think about our health without which we cannot even move from our bed room to perform our duties.
Let us make our mind to make job as well as our health equally good and invest a small quantum of time in that dirrection. The morning walk of 3 KMS is a must for everybody to keep the body in full go, let us start it with a half kilometer and gradually increase the distance till it increases reasonably. It is said that there was one thing common in worlds most successful men , that they used to get up very early in the morning and their day started at 5 in the morning. This is the most important step towards making a good health. Secondly excersize control on what we eat, and we should see whether that is good for our health or not. If we eat a proper and healthy diet, our body remains full of energy and ready to work all the time. Keep your mouth covered when you go to a public place to save yourself from getting infected. Wash your hands when you come to home from a public place which is prone to carry the infections. By doing this we can make our life healthy along with our family members and the society too.
Wish you all a healthy life.
BHARAT B DAS ( an el eye cee'ian)
Let us make our mind to make job as well as our health equally good and invest a small quantum of time in that dirrection. The morning walk of 3 KMS is a must for everybody to keep the body in full go, let us start it with a half kilometer and gradually increase the distance till it increases reasonably. It is said that there was one thing common in worlds most successful men , that they used to get up very early in the morning and their day started at 5 in the morning. This is the most important step towards making a good health. Secondly excersize control on what we eat, and we should see whether that is good for our health or not. If we eat a proper and healthy diet, our body remains full of energy and ready to work all the time. Keep your mouth covered when you go to a public place to save yourself from getting infected. Wash your hands when you come to home from a public place which is prone to carry the infections. By doing this we can make our life healthy along with our family members and the society too.
Wish you all a healthy life.
BHARAT B DAS ( an el eye cee'ian)
Wednesday, September 09, 2009
SELF INTROSPECTION
Let us introspect this time about our own self and the most effective enhancer and killer in us is our own temperament. May it be nice or lose. We earn a lot in the life through nice temperament and also the patience of an individual is based on it only. At the same time we cannot ignore lose temperament as it destroys us as an individual and more over we must let everyone know about bad effects of the lose temperament especially to our kids and our children , I remember few lines about the temperament read somewhere as,
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost the temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the no of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered that it is easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence…. Finally the day came when the boy did not lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold the temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, “You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I am sorry, the wound is still there”. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Let us think and see around about it.
Bharat B. Das ( an el eye cee'ian)
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost the temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the no of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down. He discovered that it is easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence…. Finally the day came when the boy did not lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold the temper. The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone.
The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said, “You have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I am sorry, the wound is still there”. A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
Let us think and see around about it.
Bharat B. Das ( an el eye cee'ian)
Friday, July 31, 2009
OPPORTUNITY IN LIFE
Opportunity in life comes very rarely and we all must know that whenever it comes to us we all should use that opportunity. Every obstacle presents an opportunity to improve one’s condition or we can say that an obstacle in life gives us an opportunity to improve.
I remember about a King regarding an obstacle in our path, in ancient times, a king had a boulder placed on a roadway, then he himself watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the King’s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the big stone out of the way. Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. On approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. As the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the king indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many others never understand.
Bharat B Das (An el eye cee’ ian)
I remember about a King regarding an obstacle in our path, in ancient times, a king had a boulder placed on a roadway, then he himself watched to see if anyone would remove the huge rock. Some of the King’s wealthiest merchants and courtiers came by and simply walked around it. Many loudly blamed the King for not keeping the roads clear, but none did anything about getting the big stone out of the way. Then a peasant came along carrying a load of vegetables. On approaching the boulder, the peasant laid down his burden and tried to move the stone to the side of the road. After much pushing and straining, he finally succeeded. As the peasant picked up his load of vegetables, he noticed a purse lying in the road where the boulder had been. The purse contained many gold coins and a note from the king indicating that the gold was for the person who removed the boulder from the roadway. The peasant learned what many others never understand.
Bharat B Das (An el eye cee’ ian)
Wednesday, July 22, 2009
Best Wishes
My dear readers, I am sorry to say that i could not post any article since May 2009, due to some engagements. I will be very shortly with you with a new subject.
Bharat B Das ( an el eye cee'ian)
Bharat B Das ( an el eye cee'ian)
Friday, May 08, 2009
LOVELY MEMORIES OF BIRTH PLACE
The Origional Photo in 1994-95
Latest Back view
Latest Front ViewAfter a long gap, I am here once again with you to share my love, respect, and regards with my readers for whom I have collected few marvelous and self saying pictures of my original house at my birth place at BOMAI SOPORE KASHMIR. I love this grand building because it gave me shelter for about 25 years before leaving it behind in 1989 after turmoil in Kashmir. In coming years the building will not be there as maximum parts of it has now grazed to ground due to so many reasons, but the love respect to it will remain in our hearts and I bow always towards that building which housed me and my family for so many years.
The photographs have been pictured by one of my brothers Rohit Das, who was recently in Kashmir and visited that place.
My aim to post these pictures is that everybody must know about latest what we have left behind so many years before.
The photographs have been pictured by one of my brothers Rohit Das, who was recently in Kashmir and visited that place.
My aim to post these pictures is that everybody must know about latest what we have left behind so many years before.
Bharat B Das (an el eye cee’ian)
Tuesday, April 07, 2009
INDIAN DEMOCRACY
Elections are one of the great examples of democracy all over the world, every human being has inherent right to vote , to elect the government of own choice. We have seen that the right to vote has changed the opinions of many great politicians and they could not withstand on what they had thought before results. The change is the ultimate thing in the life and we all have to accept that change always brings harmony in life.
As for as INDIA is concerned elections has many other reasons to celebrate, most of the rural people get engaged in the process only for the minor benefits and are being used for pity jobs at the behest of politicians. Most of the people live in rural INDIA and people are true at heart, but few and not all the politicians get the benefit of those true people and after winning they reach to the places where they make their pockets full of money and power. None of the politicians had ever thought about the old age provisions for the society, wherein every senior citizen of the country should have the arrangements of settlement, healthcare and much more in case of distress beyond the age where they are not able to earn or work till end of life. If we have the senior citizens hale and hearty, they can nourish the youth of the country for better tomorrow.
Our country is now a nuclear power and has made a significant place among all the countries in the world, so let us think, unite to use the power of our vote and elect such a government and the respective candidates on merits only whatever the party may be. We all countrymen are responsible to make our country better, strong and powerful.
Bharat B. Das (an el eye cee'ian)
As for as INDIA is concerned elections has many other reasons to celebrate, most of the rural people get engaged in the process only for the minor benefits and are being used for pity jobs at the behest of politicians. Most of the people live in rural INDIA and people are true at heart, but few and not all the politicians get the benefit of those true people and after winning they reach to the places where they make their pockets full of money and power. None of the politicians had ever thought about the old age provisions for the society, wherein every senior citizen of the country should have the arrangements of settlement, healthcare and much more in case of distress beyond the age where they are not able to earn or work till end of life. If we have the senior citizens hale and hearty, they can nourish the youth of the country for better tomorrow.
Our country is now a nuclear power and has made a significant place among all the countries in the world, so let us think, unite to use the power of our vote and elect such a government and the respective candidates on merits only whatever the party may be. We all countrymen are responsible to make our country better, strong and powerful.
Bharat B. Das (an el eye cee'ian)
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
HAPPY HOLI TO ALL
HOLI, the festival of colours, festival of joy, festival of togetherness, festival of forgiveness, festival of enjoyment, festival of respect to elders, festival of “Halla -Gulla” of young children and also festival of kids enjoyment. Holi being the full package of festivals which contains everything from enjoyment, happiness, delicious meals to forgiveness. The great thing in this festival is that on this date the difference among people melts down and everybody hug each other and forgive all past differences. These festivals are need of the hour which can help society to grow and to spread love and happiness among all. On this day nobody is black or fair but everybody is multicolored which confirms that the society grows, moves ahead with the growth of love, respect and regard.
Once again I wish all my countrymen a HAPPY HOLI and everybody in the world.
Friday, February 27, 2009
GOLDEN DAYS OF SCHOOL & COLLEGE ERA
Good old days are at the tip of the tongue today because one of my old school and college friends wished me on the “SALAM” the celebration day of Maha Shivratri.
Let us go to the memory lane some two decades before. Those days were truthful, full of happiness, with high regards for elders and mentors, without any 'CHAL –KAPAT' in mind and moreover the pocket empty may it be school or college. I cherish those moments especially my school and college friends like Jhon, Hassan, Tariq, Girdhari, Tej …. and few mentors like Shah Sahib from Seelu, our work experience teacher Majid Sahib whom with we would make wooden articles like clock cover etc and many more. To monitor my class as head boy, to be group commander of the class to salute then education minister at high school Bomai grounds, to remain in the eyes of other classmates especially in co education environment, to listen eagerly “rasnia rasnia tara ki tera bada manda lagda…..” probably the first Dogri song heard at that time beyond Kashmiri language, the punishments by Shah Sahib to me on pen of Hassan who lost the pen during class change, the chinars of the school grounds which used to give us cool breeze after the games, the saint “SAID SAHIB” in front of school grounds, the way to Zinipora over the school and many more.
During these years away from the childhood place, nothing faded in these two decades, even got refreshed in mind from the day we departed from the place of birth. The situation, traditions, climate, language, relations, age, thoughts changed a lot even beyond imaginations but the thirst about those old golden days remained alive in the hearts and probably will end with the end of our lives. We as a community also changed a lot, earned a lot, even got better chances to present ourselves at new places, got our children settled at better places, but what we lost is our motherland, the environment in which we got birth, in which we studied and over all we lost our mother tongue. As for as I am concerned I have always felt that physically I am at different place but my soul ”ROOH” is still wandering somewhere within my roots which keeps me connected.
Through this blog I wish my all class and college friends a warming hallo and wish them all the best.
Bharat B. Das ( an el eye cee’ian)
Monday, February 23, 2009
HAPPY MAHA SHIVRATRI 2009
At the occasion of Maha Shiv Ratri 2009 i wish all my countrymen and every body in world, and espacially to my Kashmiri Pandit brothren a HAPPY MAHA SHIVRATRI ( HEARTH MUBARAK). This festival has an important role in our life as we all Kashmiri Pandits are supposed to be with the family to offer puja to Lord Shiva during the night. After performing WATUK puja ,every body in the family prays for better healh and better days ahead for all.
Once again wishing you all a HAPPY SHIVRATRI
Bharat B Das (an el eye cee'ian)
HAPPY MAHA SHIVRATRI 2009
At the occasion of Maha Shiv Ratri 2009 i wish all my countrymen and every body in world, and espacially to my Kashmiri Pandit brothren a HAPPY MAHA SHIVRATRI ( HEARTH MUBARAK). This festival has an important role in our life as we all Kashmiri Pandits are supposed to be with the family to offer puja to Lord Shiva during the night. After performing WATUK puja ,every body in the family prays for better healh and better days ahead for all.
Once again wishing you all a HAPPY SHIVRATRI
Bharat B Das (an el eye cee'ian)
Once again wishing you all a HAPPY SHIVRATRI
Bharat B Das (an el eye cee'ian)
Saturday, January 31, 2009
SHIVRATRI GREETINGS
SHIVRATRI festival of blessings, happiness, joy is about to come. The festival has started to spread its festivity especially within the community of KASHMIRI PANDITS. The festival has been celebrated in the community with joy and happiness since thousands of years. Every corner of the house is cleaned and cloths being washed so that LORD SHIV and PARVATI JI bestow all family and the members. Hopefully every KASHMIRI PANDIT family has continued to celebrate the festival by welcoming SHANKAR JI in the same manner as we all used to do it at our places in the KASHMIR VALLEY. One thing which is missed is the waiting for GURU JI till late hours for PUJA and the offerings to SHANKAR JI AND PARVATI JI, but the same type of PUJA is offered but the voice of GURU JI has been replaced by audio cassettes and CD’s.
The good old days come in front of the eyes when as a child the competition of making the “WUSER” for WATUK NATH used to be on top. The joint families are being missed now and the elders chanting the LEELA to the BOLENATH at the WATUK room. At present the families have lesser no of members and sometimes do not know the rituals properly and do not perform the PUJA properly as we all used to perform at our places in the KASHMIR VALLEY. Still every KASHMIRI PANDIT family celebrates the festival with full rituals at their own levels. It is necessary for us to keep our glorious culture and the rituals alive till we can which will keep us connected to the roots.
I wish whole world a very happy MAHA SHIVRATRI.
BHARAT B.DAS an el eye cee'ian
The good old days come in front of the eyes when as a child the competition of making the “WUSER” for WATUK NATH used to be on top. The joint families are being missed now and the elders chanting the LEELA to the BOLENATH at the WATUK room. At present the families have lesser no of members and sometimes do not know the rituals properly and do not perform the PUJA properly as we all used to perform at our places in the KASHMIR VALLEY. Still every KASHMIRI PANDIT family celebrates the festival with full rituals at their own levels. It is necessary for us to keep our glorious culture and the rituals alive till we can which will keep us connected to the roots.
I wish whole world a very happy MAHA SHIVRATRI.
BHARAT B.DAS an el eye cee'ian
Friday, January 23, 2009
THE GREAT SWAMINANDLALJI MAHARAJ
SWAMI NANDLALJI MAHARAJ was a great saint and a pious man who went to eternal journey in mid sixties. I am a mid sixty born so was not so lucky to see that great man, but at the same time my father late Pandit PREMNATH DASS of BOMAI SOPORE remained associated with him for about 30 years and with the blessings of Swamiji every good thing came in our stride. I have been blessed by Swamiji by giving me my name BHARAT BUSHAN DAS and also to my elders too. As I said Swamiji was pious man so was our father too, which I have learnt from my parents, and from those who know Swamiji and my father too and especially have learnt from Swami mast Bab Ji whom I met at Zeistyar Mandir Srinagar in June 2008. The photographs above are that of Guruji of Swaminandlalji known as LALJI (TOP) and Swamiji’s. These photographs are exclusively with my parents since my age and it is a big treasure for me, my family and my children.
With blessings of Swaminandlalji Maharaj
Thursday, December 18, 2008
INDIA’S 9/11
INDIA’S 9/11
Terror struck our nation once again on 26/11/2008 with such a big bang which made the whole nation to standstill, though the spirits of the nation are so high it recovered very shortly. This time everybody from every corner supported to end terror once for all by eliminating the base of such activities. We as KP community are the most effected from this type of terror which created havoc in our lives and forced us to live in conditions which were and still are not suitable for us to live in. From those days many of our soldiers and other citizens of the nation sacrificed and laid their lives for safeguard of the nation and for our good days ahead. Let us join to pay a salute to all martyrs who gave their lives for safe guard of Mother India and the people therein.
Enough is enough, we all said this when our country was being inflicted by bullets and bombs at Mumbai on 26/11. The patriotism in our every heart united us to say enough is enough, let all of us pledge to keep a vigil at our surroundings so that we can keep an eye at the evil minds of terror . It is rightly said that terror has no religion and none of the religions allow any body to kill the innocents.
MY SALUTE TO ALL THOSE BRAVE, WHO ALLOW US TO LIVE SAFE AND SOUND AND WHO GAVE THEIR LIVES FOR THE NATION.
Bharat B. Das an el eye cee'ian
Terror struck our nation once again on 26/11/2008 with such a big bang which made the whole nation to standstill, though the spirits of the nation are so high it recovered very shortly. This time everybody from every corner supported to end terror once for all by eliminating the base of such activities. We as KP community are the most effected from this type of terror which created havoc in our lives and forced us to live in conditions which were and still are not suitable for us to live in. From those days many of our soldiers and other citizens of the nation sacrificed and laid their lives for safeguard of the nation and for our good days ahead. Let us join to pay a salute to all martyrs who gave their lives for safe guard of Mother India and the people therein.
Enough is enough, we all said this when our country was being inflicted by bullets and bombs at Mumbai on 26/11. The patriotism in our every heart united us to say enough is enough, let all of us pledge to keep a vigil at our surroundings so that we can keep an eye at the evil minds of terror . It is rightly said that terror has no religion and none of the religions allow any body to kill the innocents.
MY SALUTE TO ALL THOSE BRAVE, WHO ALLOW US TO LIVE SAFE AND SOUND AND WHO GAVE THEIR LIVES FOR THE NATION.
Bharat B. Das an el eye cee'ian
Tuesday, December 02, 2008
ATTITUDE MATTERS
Regionalism and partiality are the main social insects which have bitten me and my community since we were forced by the circumustances to live in such a setup which is altogether different to that of ours. What actually our living setup is? It is to live in such a social setup where humanity, respect to elders exist. What good you are supposed to do as an individual apart from being your duty towards family, society and nation is given due regard and appreciation too. My opinion to above reference that the time I gave to my job and to the people around have never given a job satisfaction, may be my approach might not be good enough, but it has never been so bad believe me, the service provided to people has always been a devotion to me. The services given to the society wherein I live has never encouraged me to do better and better, even rated me below the mark. This is what I disagree because the “PACE” of the life among the communities differ. My pace of life is different from what is at the place where my devotion is now about 20 years. Devotion is something which fetches you laurels, but sometimes when it shatters you and gives bad results it hurts very much. The place which I think to be my second birth place is like a step mother who loves, accepts only its own. From now there will be my only birthplace which has brought me to the existence and which has given me enough encouragement to work for the humanity without anything good in return. One of my well wishers had suggested me to remain what I am actually and never try to what you are not.
My community shall agree to me that we all have been victims of regionalism and partiality at one moment or the other. I have put in all the efforts and skill for betterment of the society and surroundings as a basic native and have changed myself a lot accordingly but all in vain, some people keep bad notion because we dare them to reply and explain the things, sometimes those coward persons are at higher positions than ours.
I believe in positivity and keep a positive thinking; the person who digs for others fells himself in it. But it is necessary for everybody to keep the identity different and must remain what originally the person is.
Thanks
Bharat B Das
An el eye cee’ian
My community shall agree to me that we all have been victims of regionalism and partiality at one moment or the other. I have put in all the efforts and skill for betterment of the society and surroundings as a basic native and have changed myself a lot accordingly but all in vain, some people keep bad notion because we dare them to reply and explain the things, sometimes those coward persons are at higher positions than ours.
I believe in positivity and keep a positive thinking; the person who digs for others fells himself in it. But it is necessary for everybody to keep the identity different and must remain what originally the person is.
Thanks
Bharat B Das
An el eye cee’ian
Saturday, November 29, 2008
WISH MY COUNTRYMEN HAPPY AND TERROR FREE DAYS AHEAD.
We all have seen the trauma and the pain infilicted to the countrymen during last few days at Mumbai. I get hurt when ever the terror strikes because it first struck us some 20 years back. I know the pain of terror strike and the pain is so severe which is unbearable. I pray God to keep my countrymen away from such pains and traumas. Also we must salute the HEROES of the country who lay their lives for our safety.
WISH MY COUNTRYMEN HAPPY AND TERROR FREE DAYS AHEAD.
Bee Bee an el eye cee'ian
WISH MY COUNTRYMEN HAPPY AND TERROR FREE DAYS AHEAD.
Bee Bee an el eye cee'ian
Wednesday, November 19, 2008
Positive Attitude brings happiness in life
POSITIVE attitude can bring happiness in life of an Individual. Attitude can be POSITIVE or NEGATIVE,we all must overcome the negative attitude towards any thing, which happenes in our life and must keep POSITIVE attitude to make life sucessfull.
Problem is distance between expectation and reality.
Either expect less and accept the reality or
expect a lot and turn into reality.
If we go through the above lines perhaps the problem lies every where and the solution lies in its removal. My prespective in this regard is that the when we sort out a problem ,the relief from that is a happy LIFE. So it is evident that when we have a positve attitude we can make our life happy and prosperous. It is said that 85% positive attitude and 15% skill is equql to 100% sucess.
Mathimatically we can write the equation as,
85% positive attitude+15% skill= 100% sucess
I wish you all best of luck.
thanks
Tuesday, November 11, 2008
Anger and Love have no limits; choose the later to have a beautiful & lovely life....
Few days ago I got an email from my friend who changed my way of thinking and I felt that he sent this mail especially for me, it read as
"While a man was washing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father.... with painful eyes he asked 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?' Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it a lot of times.Devastated by his own actions..... . Sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches, child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
Anger and Love have no limits; choose the later to have a beautiful & lovely life.... Things are to be used and people are to be loved,But the problem in today's world is that People are used and things are loved."
The last lines said about anger and love which are the most important happenings in our day to day life and the impact is so big that it can effect our lives. We all must think seriously that when we go out to earn for family at various places and levels, we must keep an eye on two things one that does any- body use us instead of loving. If you don’t keep your eyes open you may be being used by somebody for the benefit of his/her own, which can result in infliction of big wounds.
In broader view I believe that people should never be used, but if somebody does it in return he also can be used by somebody else.
The solution to the problem lies in above thought as anger and love have no limits, chose later to have a beautiful and lovely life….
Bharat B.Das
an el eye cee 'ian
"While a man was washing his new car, his 4 yr old son picked stone & scratched lines on the side of the car. In anger, the man took the child's hand & hit it many times, not realizing he was using a wrench. At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. When the child saw his father.... with painful eyes he asked 'Dad when will my fingers grow back?' Man was so hurt and speechless. He went back to car and kicked it a lot of times.Devastated by his own actions..... . Sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches, child had written 'LOVE YOU DAD'.
Anger and Love have no limits; choose the later to have a beautiful & lovely life.... Things are to be used and people are to be loved,But the problem in today's world is that People are used and things are loved."
The last lines said about anger and love which are the most important happenings in our day to day life and the impact is so big that it can effect our lives. We all must think seriously that when we go out to earn for family at various places and levels, we must keep an eye on two things one that does any- body use us instead of loving. If you don’t keep your eyes open you may be being used by somebody for the benefit of his/her own, which can result in infliction of big wounds.
In broader view I believe that people should never be used, but if somebody does it in return he also can be used by somebody else.
The solution to the problem lies in above thought as anger and love have no limits, chose later to have a beautiful and lovely life….
Bharat B.Das
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Tuesday, November 04, 2008
Expect more from yourself than from others
Namaskar and Happy Diwali to all members at Ambala Cantt and around, the happiness and prosperity prevails by the grace of God among we all KP community members. These days we see after hard work in our day today life after biggest ever turmoil in our lives as KASHMIRI PANDITS after leaving our homes and hearths behind. Hard work and persistence was the only way to overcome the difficulties in the life and for we all KASMIRI PANDITS this was the only instrument with us to review our lives at different places with different environments and different languages. Let us go through the saying,
Expect more from yourself than from others
Because expectation from others hurt a lot while expectation from you inspires a lot.
The answer lies in it. We all after starting our new lives at different places expected more from ourselves and put in our best efforts in reorganizing the broken life and the expectation from within inspired a lot.
The resettlement and rehabilitation of KASHMIRI PANDIT community can be seen as a theory behind settlements after ups and downs, devastation in life and more over unexpected happenings in life. The difficult days are now over and I pray to almighty to give courage to every member of the KP community and every human being in world to think positively and progress with leaps and bounds by believing in you and with full expectation from within.
Thanks very much .
Bharat B Das
Expect more from yourself than from others
Because expectation from others hurt a lot while expectation from you inspires a lot.
The answer lies in it. We all after starting our new lives at different places expected more from ourselves and put in our best efforts in reorganizing the broken life and the expectation from within inspired a lot.
The resettlement and rehabilitation of KASHMIRI PANDIT community can be seen as a theory behind settlements after ups and downs, devastation in life and more over unexpected happenings in life. The difficult days are now over and I pray to almighty to give courage to every member of the KP community and every human being in world to think positively and progress with leaps and bounds by believing in you and with full expectation from within.
Thanks very much .
Bharat B Das
Monday, November 03, 2008
Jammu & Kashmir, a paradise on earth
Love for your birth place is such a passion which forces you to visit again and again even you are hundreds of kilometers away from that place. This year the birth place of all Kashmiri pundits till 1990 called me, my emotions once again in June 2008 after short span of 2 years .That time through the columns of various magazines, I wrote about KASHMIR OF 2006 and today I am lucky once again to write about KASHMIR OF 2008.
Today’s KASHMIR is a bit more happy, more relaxed, more matured and doing all the day to day working as usual but without we all KAHMIRI PUNDITS. This time we went through southern side of KASHMIR like VERINAG, NAGBAL, MATTAN .On the way many PUNDIT villages came on passing the route to ANANTNAG, which gave a deserted look as all the PUNDIT houses stand still keeping there doors and windows open probably for all its inhabitants. Every where in KAHMIR all the PUNDIT houses are showing the same love and affections to their family members, but few of them are now loosing the hope of comeback of their respective inhabitants and also few houses are ageing now and are very desperate to see their loved ones before they fell down once for all. This I found when I reached my home at BOMAI SOPORE along with my kids on 10th of JUNE 2008 for the first time after about 19 years, my home asked me what was my fault the you all left me all alone un attended at this place, it also narrated all the pains inflicted by un identified during all these years. The surroundings wore a deserted look with heaps of unwanted greenery and doors and windows open without window panes and doors as well. It seemed that it will be no more in next year as 50 % of it stands damaged, before I said goodbye to my revered home the arms of that grand building which was my home some years before hugged me, my children and my wife too. I too paid a respect to it bowing my head for giving me shelter for about 25 years.
I need to say that same feeling I found at all places where the PUNDIT locality look in the same way, I need to add that what we all lost can never be achieved back because the clock has completed almost 20 years now leaving us far behind and every good thing there is not for we all, who cares for whom.
I request every one to remember their place of residence in KASHMIR before leaving homes and hearths behind, the place and the home will be calling you even for once.
Today’s KASHMIR is a bit more happy, more relaxed, more matured and doing all the day to day working as usual but without we all KAHMIRI PUNDITS. This time we went through southern side of KASHMIR like VERINAG, NAGBAL, MATTAN .On the way many PUNDIT villages came on passing the route to ANANTNAG, which gave a deserted look as all the PUNDIT houses stand still keeping there doors and windows open probably for all its inhabitants. Every where in KAHMIR all the PUNDIT houses are showing the same love and affections to their family members, but few of them are now loosing the hope of comeback of their respective inhabitants and also few houses are ageing now and are very desperate to see their loved ones before they fell down once for all. This I found when I reached my home at BOMAI SOPORE along with my kids on 10th of JUNE 2008 for the first time after about 19 years, my home asked me what was my fault the you all left me all alone un attended at this place, it also narrated all the pains inflicted by un identified during all these years. The surroundings wore a deserted look with heaps of unwanted greenery and doors and windows open without window panes and doors as well. It seemed that it will be no more in next year as 50 % of it stands damaged, before I said goodbye to my revered home the arms of that grand building which was my home some years before hugged me, my children and my wife too. I too paid a respect to it bowing my head for giving me shelter for about 25 years.
I need to say that same feeling I found at all places where the PUNDIT locality look in the same way, I need to add that what we all lost can never be achieved back because the clock has completed almost 20 years now leaving us far behind and every good thing there is not for we all, who cares for whom.
I request every one to remember their place of residence in KASHMIR before leaving homes and hearths behind, the place and the home will be calling you even for once.
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